Tipping is one of the wedding planning details that tend to get neglected. As a wedding planner I don't usually receive a monetary tip but it is a wonderful and reassuring feeling when you know youre clients are pleased with your service. Here is a general list of vendors and my advice on tipping, however these amounts are not set in stone. Plan according to your budget and the type of service you receive from each. If you are on a tight budget a thank you card and or a very small gift is always appreciated.
Caterer: most add in 18-20% and it is up to you if you want to give a tip above that.
Bartenders - 15% to 20% of the liquor bill.
Hair and Makeup: 15% of the bill
Limo driver: 15-20% of the bill but not more than $150
Music: $30 per band member or 10% of the bill for DJs
Cake: Generally not expected but 10% is welcomed.
Officiant: considered inappropriate however a donatetion of $50 – $200 is welcomed.
Flowers: Generally not tipped but if they do a really great job, 5-10% is welcomed.
Photographers: Normally not tipped, however it is welcomed. You can add $100-300
Wedding Planners: gratuity is not usually required, although, for something better than usual to exceptional a 10-20% tip is not unheard of.)
